A viral video shared on Monday, January 5, 2026, has sparked a heated debate across social media after a woman urged ladies to prioritize “value” over marital status when choosing a partner.
In the clip, the unidentified lady argued that a man’s willingness to provide care, attention, and financial support is more important than whether or not he has a wife at home.
The lady’s advice centers on the idea that “good men” are rare, and women should not discard a supportive partner simply because he is already committed.
“If you want to date him for the rest of your life, then go ahead. As long as he is giving you attention, supporting you and your family, do not leave him. Don’t leave a good man because he’s married.”
She further claimed that many women lose out on genuine security and care because they are too focused on societal judgments or the ideal of a single man. According to her, if a man is “genuinely investing” in a woman and her family, his marital status should be secondary.
