A lady has ignited an online discussion after claiming that men, especially those in Abuja, can be just as focused on money as women.
In a lengthy social media post, she recounted her experiences since relocating to the city. Initially, she admitted, she was doubtful about the stereotype of men pursuing women for financial gain.
“Before moving to Abuja, I didn’t believe the stories. People would say Abuja men are like this or that, but I didn’t judge until I experienced it myself,” she explained.
She went on to describe how men often inquire about her living situation, whether she resides alone, and her financial status, seemingly with the intention of asking for money.
She emphasized that while women are frequently criticized for relying on men’s wealth, men can also exhibit similar behavior, seeking partners primarily for financial benefit.
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Red some comments below:
@iamjecintakel: “This is 100% true. When I moved to Abuja, one man who came to visit refused to leave. He stayed for one week. Ate my food, used my stuff, used the AC 24 hrs and never contributed shi shi. I had to call my brothers to help me chase him away .”
@Feliz: “I have been observing this gathering; all they do is sit down and talk about men and women, marriage, and sex. Is that how unemployed our people have become, or what?”
@LOUISFIRE_TECH: “You women like spending men’s money but small #2500 way man won collect from you now you done already they cry online so you see how it feels bah .”
@Asa: “For a hikers club, these people are always sitting down and talking instead of walking.”
@udaonu: “Deal with it. Upcoming diggers meets old diggers.”
@lamowolabi: “Make we all be gold diggers, there’s plenty gold to go around.”
